What is a Hoe?

Tonight at my schools's Chapter of NAACP the question "How do you define Hoe? came up. Shortly after that, a female posted on FaceBook.com that she has had sex with 23 people. Now, I am not one to pass remarks and I don't think its appropriate to judge but it came as a shocker to me. I believe that people should be free and comfortable enough with themselves to have "casual sex" reason being that if a female thinks sex is a seal on the deal that proves they have something special with a man, then that female is bound to suffer emotionally when some men don't respect that and in turn "beat it and leave it." I am in no way condoning men who don't respect a woman's morals but I do think that someone having premarital sex should be emotionally prepared for the many inconsiderate men out there. Men, I am not man bashing. Please don't take my comments that way.

Any how. Enough Disclaimer. What is a Hoe? Well Sitting in the meeting I decided that a hoe is someone who doesnt respect their body. It is hard to decipher what exactly a hoe is. Now, It's intersting that I use such a colorful definition, right? But it is difficult to classify what exactly a hoe is. I do not think its wrong for a woman to have a "one night stand." Every so often a woman yearns to do some thing adventurous. However, too many one night stands? I would classify you as a hoe. I dont think its too bad of a thing for a woman to have quite a few bodies. However too many bodies? I would classify you as a hoe.

So here is the REAL question. How many is too many? Well if you are constantly on the prowl for a one night stand, chances are... A respectable woman should not be willing to give her body up to every attractive man. A woman should know her self worth. I think one "one night stand" for every two years that you hvae been having sex is appropriate. At age 20, you should not have 20 bodies. While some people dont like thae idea of women having a double digit number of bodies, i beg to differ. I think 2 for every year since you have been having sex is most appropriate however that is situational. If a woman had a year where she was in 3 relationships she thought were strong then she of course would have exceeded what i think is appropriate and I dont think thats wrong. You know what? My numbers are just safe. I wont swear by them, I will say, they are most appropriate for me. The years living:Sexual partner ratio should not be 1:1, a "body count" is situational but a woman who respects her body wouldnt let the number get out of hand.

The truth of the matter is there are way too many dimensions to what makes a woman a whore. A lot of women may call themselves a "player" or doing the same thing men do but it doesnt add up and its not the same. I once read on twitter.com "A key that opens all doors is considered a master key, a door that can be opened by any key has a faulty lock." I say this to say, women have fun and enjoy healthy sexual relationships but respect your self and your body. They are with you for the long run. As great as "the real thing" may feel if you cant find a sexual partner that can last a while a good idea is to find a good sex toy. Promiscuity can easily be regretted after a few more years when maturity and wisdom takes over.

Ending Disclaimer: This post focused on women however.... MEN SHOULD REPSECT THEIR BODIES TOO